Making your first enquiry can feel daunting — I completely understand. Whether you’re uncertain about etiquette, unsure what to expect, or simply nervous about reaching out, this guide covers everything you need to know to make the process easy, comfortable and enjoyable for both of us.
Before You Make Contact
The first step is reading the profile carefully. Everything I’ve written is there to help you understand who I am, what I offer and how I like to work. Pay attention to availability hours, rates and any notes about how I prefer to be contacted — this saves time for both of us and shows you’re a genuine, respectful enquiry.
Have the following ready before you message me for the first time:
- Your preferred date and time
- How long you’d like to spend together
- Whether you prefer incall, outcall or a hotel visit
- Your location (suburb or hotel name) if outcall
“The best interactions start with clarity, warmth and mutual respect. A simple, honest message goes much further than an elaborate introduction.”
How to Send Your First Message
Keep it short, polite and to the point. You don’t need to over-explain yourself or write an essay. A message like: “Hi Aria, I’d love to book 1 hour on Friday 14th at 7pm, outcall to the Hilton Auckland. Is that available?” is absolutely perfect.
I respond to genuine enquiries warmly and promptly — usually within the hour during available times. If you don’t hear back immediately, please be patient and avoid sending multiple follow-up messages.
What to Expect After Booking is Confirmed
Once we’ve agreed on the details, I’ll send a confirmation. From there, here’s what happens:
- For longer bookings, a small deposit may be requested to secure your time
- On the day, I’ll confirm our arrangement a couple of hours beforehand
- For hotel visits, have your room number ready and simply let me know when you’re ready
- Arrive clean, relaxed and on time — punctuality is genuinely appreciated
A Note on Discretion
Everything between us is completely private. I never make unexpected contact, I don’t discuss clients with anyone, and all communications are treated with the highest level of confidentiality. You can relax knowing your privacy is always protected.